niqabis wedding ceremony

Assalamualaikum

Hello hello, nothing much to share but i bet most of you might wonder how the niqabis(woman who wear purdah) get married,or am i the only one who excited much and always wonder little little unimportant/unrelated things? Can I just pretend that everyone are interested to know harharhar?hehe, nak jugak kann. I mean I always figure out do they have ceremony, do they celebrate, no makeup ke or can they wear some other colours rather than blackkk. Luckily my cousins wear niqab and it was an unexpected marriage, shes only 20 and her big sister did not married yet, kira langkah bendul la kira and its happen out of sudden!

So when we heard the news, we were shock, story begin when the groom side came over to the restaurant (own by his father) and merisik, the next week or next day I cant remember, they were engaged and while the engagement ceremony then only my cousin open up her purdah and show her face to the future husband. They never met, never knew and never spoke to each other fuh fuh fuhh. Thank Allah he just nod his head means agree, cuba kalau he dont want and cuba kalau my cousin din agree, aa and if it happen to me macam ni cane. Tapi I always have a dream wahh kan best if masa tunang nnti then only I know who is the guy wakakkaa over! Oke if  know pon, I dont want to know, paham takkk? tak paham takpe.T_T

So after all the discussion, I thought they will discuss about duit hantaran, they did not! They only discuss about the big date. My parents (which is the spokesperson on behalf) tried to raise the issue la kan, yeah la we are from the bride side, we have right to know, tapi malangnya we only know how much he will give on the day of nikah and my aunt family dont mind. Kira ape yang groom kasi we just accept, barakah, unlike the typical malay discussion nowadays yang siap ada sen2 and tawar menawar tu .;p. but I think its all depends on the family itself. Janganlah takut kalau duit hantaran rendah sebab mestilah si suami tahu berapa nak kasi, cumanya dua dua pihak ikhlas memberi dan menerima. Suami untuk disenangi, isteri untuk dikasihi, so takde issue pasal duit hantaran.:)

 

nikah day.saya pakai purdahh, ada boleh kenal dari mata je?

  

The kenduri kendara was the same like the others malay wedding and they have three, since the groom is one of the community at the mosque, so the mosque did a ceremony to this couple and they invite all the communities and anyone who want to come. The third ceremony is majlis bertandang. The different is they divide the place to eat according to gender. Perempuan makan kat bahagian perempuan, lelaki dekat lelaki and dihadang oleh kain hiihihi. Baju pon pakai cantik la, different colour sebab nanti tetamunya datang semua hitam, so untuk membezakan pakai la colour lain. Then baju pengantin pon ditempah, purdah, tudung semua, bezanya cost untuk membuat sederhana.

 the groom (he is one of the imam/bilal at masjid depan sunway pyramid)

 now spot me wahahhaaha over macam lah tatau.

 this was on her 2nd ceremony, the mosque, the first was at the house.

 I was the make up artist for 2days haha, i makeup her,  most of them makeup especially at the eyes area. dont ask me what is the purpose!!please ask you wear niqab, kenapa tangkap gambar when people cant even see your face???wahahhaa.saya gelakkan cousin saya je ye.kidding.sama je macam kita2, ade ramai orang tangkap gambar sama2, kira kalau upload pon tak berdosa la sebab tak nampak muka hehe.diorang khaskan muka untuk suami saja, special kan? beruntung suami.

So that day i decided to wear niqab,mengada, saje je menggedik. Im not wearing it because of I just want to look like arabic or to get a compliment and what not, I know people will criticized where I know im not that good kann, I din cover my aurah properly blabla. From experience then only you know how does it feel kann. So, even people were looking but they showed some respect, snanye boleh je tau pompuan tu cantik ke tak hanya dari mata lalalala,dari mata turun ke hati~ That is why when people start to wear, they will not open it sebab rasa malu, malu dia macam bila awak dah biasa pakai baju keluar, cuba tetiba orang soh bukak, sama la. Macam bila dah biasa pakai seluar, bila orang suruh bukak seluar, rasa malu tu ada. Sebab tu malu tu penting, takde malu, takde iman.:)

bubyeeeeeeeeeeeee~dah lama tak backlink ni pon trace dekat nuffnang. :) mekaseh la ye.