Monday, November 2, 2009

listen to love.

i keep remembering myself. no one is the same.similar but not perfectly the same.n sumtymes we kept complaining why our love is not lyke him,her or wutever.n sumtyme we din realize dat no one is perfect,isnt it?

love is not only can be shown by act,words etc.sumtymes we cant express it in dificult isnt it?so we have to listen.

we say 'take care','da makan?','be good','drive carefully' instead of i luv,i care for u,u r important to me,i dun want u to get hurt.we hesitate to say the actual words “I love you.” because we are timid about expressing the love.egois.!

We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don’t say. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express.The problem in listening for love is that we don’t always understand the language of love which the other person is using. (terasa jiwang la plak)hikhik.

The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. we are selfish. we tend to hurt of luv one juz bcoz we are egois! blagak!we hear the words, but we don’t listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding.sob sob.dats why relationship always not stay for long.

They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry.marah tandanya sayang.tapi mara suka ati sangat ta boe diterima.

It is not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference because a person need not be lonely even if he is alone. Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely. It is not a matter of being present WITH someone. It is a matter of being present TO someone. Remember always to say what you mean. no regret. n ta perlu na segan2.Never be afraid to express yourself. haik!

p/s:i luv u so much bb.!


Anonymous said...

Listening.. =)

syazwan iniesta said...

woaa...u ni really doctor chenta ni..
fuyoo..tips2 kalah dr.fadilah kamsah..hehe

i wanna admit i admire u:P
skrg x perlu malu2 dah haha

hansuke said...

u really think deep even at a young age..:P
i love reading expressive ideas and thoughts.
u have a give in expressing urself.
that's good.

many malaysian still have to learn to express them selves more often. most of us tend to "kias" things rather than being honest and saying things straight forward. this happens basically in relationship as far as i know.

isn't it easier if u just said the truth right from the bottom of ur heart? but to some it's very difficult to do so. it's a petty. only if we just be honest to each other and just quit "kias2" at things, especially when it comes to love issues.

great topic.
keep it up..:)

bella dela rosa said...

thx :)i will