Wednesday, April 13, 2011

men are from mars,women are from venus-intro

assalamualaikum.

many man always misinterpreted with what woman say. i would like to stress here im not in only one side.since im so in love with this book,and maybe some of it really stumble upon my life.sometimes when we are in relationship with someone we want them to be like what we want instead of understand what they want.the philosophy of woman and man are totally difference often overlooked.

let say in one situation, a girl talk 'arini i sakit takde sape tengok takde sape kasi nak amik tau i duduk sorang dari pagi blabla'.and guy tend to think that the girl blaming,complaining him but the fact is they dont.they just want you to hear.please dont blame her if she din called you,she din inform you.she just want you to hear her.to be with her.girl very hardly to find something that she want to blame for in a man that she love most.she just want you to listen without doing anything.the touch of your hand is very powerful to us.she just want you to hold and feel safe in your arm.macam kuasa pawer rangers tu wahh sile kawin dulu ye ehem.

just imagine man and woman are from a different planet.im an alien harharha.oke tak.and both decided to fly to earth in the beginning all are beautiful,just like a beginning of a relationship.but as time go on,both of us forget that we are from different planet.(dah macam cite karut pulak).oke just imagine.we mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways that we want.nooooo!

the most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is they dont listen.no matter how many times she tells him that he's not listening, he doesnt gets it and keeps doing the same thing.she wants empathy, but he thinks she wants solutions.no laa kamonn guys.lend your ear can you.

the most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women always try to change them.-_-'.she thinks she's nurturing him, while he feels he's being controlled. instead, he just want her acceptance.biasalah kalau dah sayang selalu control.

but at the end of the day please remember that even though you are different but you love each other.:)


4 comments:

delarocha said...

saling melengkapi

sue. said...

so sweett written...yalah...lelaki walaumacam mana sekalipun memang diciptakan utk perempuan y lemah lembut ni kan..hee

Sophie Al-yahya said...

i love this book. =B

couples should both read this book so they would understand each other better.

*dah suruh bf baca 2x tapi entah baca entah tidak.hampeh jekk.. =( *

Mira Amirudin said...

this book totally greattt book!
my favourito!;)
yeah...both are differences,and need each other;)